When I look in the mirror, for the first five seconds I still see a 20-year-old. Then the visible wrinkles around my eyes and jowls provide a friendly reminder that I’m not 20 any more. At that moment in the mirror, I challenge myself physically, as I don’t feel like I’m over 40, and the face I’m looking at cannot be accurate, but according to my birth certificate it is.

I mean, I still feel young, so how can I look so different? Simply put, I’m just a 20-year-old that now has 25 years of work experience, a family, and has journeyed through the ups and downs of life.

Even though this is what I believe, I now know others don’t feel the same, especially when it comes to the workplace. Here is my recent reality check: Last year I left my corporate job of 14 years. I was in a space where I had the opportunity to find a new job with a new company. I felt fresh, excited and limitless. Although it had been a while since I last interviewed, I thought, “No problem. I’ve got this. I used to any get any job I wanted, so finding a new one should pretty be easy.” After a few interviews (good interviews, I thought), I wasn’t getting hired. Frustration set in because I could not figure out what was so different this time around. After all, my resume was stronger and more accomplished than my younger years.

But something had changed. I aged.

Call me naive, but I did not think that my age would be an obstacle in the workplace. I had heard this from other women over the years, but I chose not to believe them because certainly it would never happen to me.

Here is a true story: A sales recruiter was helping a sales manager fill an open position. The recruiter sent her a resume of a female candidate with a college graduation date of 1998. The sales manager abruptly turned down the resume. In addition, she let the recruiter know that she didn’t want to see any resumes with college graduation dates prior to 2003. This was the sales manager’s criterion for what she deemed to be a viable candidate. Not experience, not achievements, not abilities. Simply age.

This true story was painful for me to hear. Here was a woman selling out other women and contributing to the stigma that we fight every day, and sadly her perspective is a harsh reality. However, let this statistic give you another reality check and perspective: In 2024, women over 65 will make up roughly the same percentage of the female workforce as older men do of the male workforce. Additionally, twice as many women over 55 will be in the labor force as women ages 16 to 24.

Knowing the stigma, knowing the numbers and the reality, what is the best way to approach finding a new job later in life? Here are five tips when looking for a new job over the age of 40:

1.    Use your network.

Sending our resumes to career websites will do nothing for us. We get pushed aside as we are categorized. The tip here is to use our network of colleagues, former business associates and friends to find companies that are hiring and will have a genuine interest in what we can do for their organizations. This method does work. Finding like-minded individuals with the same goals of working smart and getting stuff done will provide the best platform for finding a new working environment.

2.    Show off your skills.

At this point in our careers, we have a proven list of accomplishments and skillsets. We have navigated some of our toughest times and have already been through the learning. Because of this, we require less training and possess the right skills, because yeah, we know how to do it. We need to show off our confidence and accolades to a potential employer. They need to know that our leadership skills and experience will fit in flawlessly with their company.

3. Be bold.

We can ask harder questions in the interview process and as an employee. Perhaps questions that challenge company methods or goals. If anything as women, unfortunately, we have been taught to be compliant and agreeable to get through the stepping-stones of our careers. We don’t have to do that any more. We have arrived. Work experience has taught us to think quickly, make decisions and share opinions. We have a lot to teach, and hiring companies need to appreciate this. 

4.    Seek a mentor, be a mentor.

In recent weeks, I have had great women mentor me. Women of a certain age. Women who are drama-free, make things happen, and don’t sweat the small stuff. I appreciate them, have learned from them, and have committed to do the same for others. This is important, as this will help us change the tide and break the stigma.

5.    We are already tech-savvy.

Much to the disbelief of others, age doesn’t stifle our tech knowledge. It’s who we are as a society.  Most of us already use work-related apps like Zoom, Slack, Dropbox and others. The point is, our tech knowledge isn’t lacking, so that is no excuse for hiring companies or managers. We are already there. This is not a hindrance.

The battle continues. In my earlier years as a woman in the corporate world, I fought to make a mark. Now I’m fighting the same female battle in addition to 20-plus years of life and work experience. This should get easier, shouldn’t it? It doesn’t, so it is up to us to change it. We have to change the mindset by challenging the current stigma. Because we have arrived and we aren’t going anywhere.

Holly Caplan is a workplace issues expert, career coach and author. Her website is www.hollycaplan.com.

Stories of Pierce County’s history will be shared with the public during a free event Feb. 23 in Buckley.

“Discover Pierce County’s Heritage: From the Foothills to Puget Sound Shores” is scheduled for 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Buckley Hall, located at 127 N. River Ave. Representatives of 20 historical societies and museums will gather for presentations about communities through interactive displays during the family-friendly event.

Participating organizations include Buckley Odd Fellows and Rebekah Historical Museum, City of Buckley Cemetery/Week’s Funeral Home, DuPont Historical Society, Fife History Museum, Foothills Historical Society, Fort Nisqually Living History Museum, Fox Island Historical Society and Museum, Friends of Karshner Museum, Gig Harbor Peninsula Museum and Historical Society, Graham Historical Society, Greater Bonney Lake-Lake Tapps Historical Society, Heritage Quest Research Library, Orting Historical Society, Points Northeast Historical Society, South Hill Historical Society, Spanaway Historical Society and the Prairie House Museum, Steilacoom Historical Museum Association, Sumner Ryan House Museum, Puyallup Historical Society. And Wilkeson Historical Society-Carbon River Corridor.

Friends of the Buckley Library is the sponsor, in partnership with Foothills Historical Society and Museum.

Thanks to extensive awareness created by government and those in the financial services industry, seniors are now more aware than ever that they need to have enough funds to carry them through retirement. The previous figure of an estimated 70 percent of pre-retirement income has been adjusted to a higher and more accurate 80 percent. This is to ensure that the average American, who is expected to retire at the age of 63, can live comfortably for the next 18 years.

Unfortunately, many won’t meet this target and will run the risk of running out of money should they retire sooner or live longer. Instead of searching for jobs that will hire senior citizens, a great option for those who didn’t save enough during their work life is to start a business to fund retirement. Here are a few tips to ensure your senior-citizen business idea ends up being a good investment:

Make use of good resources.

Before investing time and money into a concept, it’s important to consider the things that will form a good foundation for the business. This includes:

• Creating a business that will allow you to maintain your lifestyle. For instance, if you have a hard time moving around, having a business that requires travel may cause frustration. Another thing to consider is that the business may require additional cash flow from time to time, but shouldn’t affect your standard of living in retirement.

• Tap into the right market. It will be difficult to sell a snowsuit in a tropical coastal town. Therefore, proper research needs to be done. This would include a feasibility study for those who wish to start up a whole new concept. Once the feasibility study is complete, do the business plan. This not only allows you to gain insight into what you’re getting yourself into, but also provides a blueprint for your business. It will also allow you to set up a suitable timeframe for breakeven to take place. After this, the business will need to generate a profit to ensure you don’t have to tap into your personal retirement reserves.

• Form a strong tribe. The word “tribe” might be millennialspeak, but it’s important that small business owners surround themselves with people who will add value to your business. For instance, business coaches, mentors, a network of business owners, the right accountant and attorney, and great staff.

Make use of modern business techniques.

There is no reason seniors only need to rely on traditional methods to give their businesses a boost. For instance, staffing issues can easily be resolved by hiring freelancers to get the job done. This works well for short-term or one-off projects. Another aspect to consider is that remote workers may also add value if the business environment can make use of it.

Modern funding options will also provide seniors with the option to boost their business without relying on traditional funding routes, such as taking out costly loans. Crowdfunding platforms such as Kickstarter, Indiegogo, and GoFundMe are one option for a cash injection into the business. Another funding option for your retiree business is the many online business loans options.

Seniors should also allow their passion to dictate the terms of their business. Although starting a business is hard work, it shouldn’t feel like it, and that is what passion for the business achieves. Passion for a business will allow seniors and retirees to enjoy that extra cash inflow and the opportunity to remain an active member of society without feeling that they’ve worked a day in their retirement life.

So, what are you waiting for? Now’s the time to start the business you dreamed of your entire life while working for someone else.

Melissa Clark, who wrote this article, works in marketing and customer relationship management for Incfile, a company that advises new entrepreneurs and small-business owners. This article was originally published on the Incfile blog.

BOOKS: An all-time windstorm

Thousands who survived it remember the Columbus Day Storm of 1962 that slammed western Washington and the West Coast from northern California to British Columbia. Ferocious wind topping 100 miles per hour killed dozens, injured hundreds and damaged more than 50,000 homes. The closest-matching storm of its kind in the U.S. was Superstorm Sandy in 2012 on the East Coast. A big difference between the two is that Sandy was predicted days in advance, while the Columbus Day Storm caught weather forecasters by surprise. As detailed in “A Deadly Wind” (Oregon State University Press) by newspaper journalist-turned-author John Dodge of Olympia, the storm is a cautionary tale (spiced with human drama and Cold War tension) and the Pacific Northwest benchmark for severe weather in this era of climate change.